Emotionally Unavailable

Here is a EU quiz.

1 Never/Rarely 2 Sometimes 3 Often 4 Always

1. I connect with the emotions of characters in movies.
2. When people feel sad or hurt I can share their emotion.
3. When I look at my partner I feel many different things at different times.
4. I get over being mad right away.
5. I look forward to a long relationship with my partner.
6. When I hear a happy song, I feel happy.
7. I like to laugh and to cry.
8. I can figure out everything my partner is feeling from his or her behavior.
9. I tell people what my emotions are.
10. When I feel scared, I am able to work through it.
11. No matter who I am with, I am clear about who I am.
12. I know my values, beliefs and I stick to them.
13. I'm clear about my personal relationship goals.
14. I am able to talk to my partner about my feelings.
15. I like to see emotions in others.

How to spot an EU Person.
How to spot emotionally unavailable men/women and also useful for spotting the physically and spiritually unavailable men!

He/She has a girl/boyfriend already
He’s/She's married
He’s/She's recently separated
He/She has a long distance relationship
He’s/She's very reliant on text messages, IM’ing and email for the majority of his/her contact
They’re ambiguous about the status of the relationship
You’re not sure when you’ll hear from them next, even though you’ve been dating them for a while
You think you’re in a relationship, but it’s closer to a booty call
He/She says stuff like ‘If only the timing was different, you’d be the perfect girl/boyfriend’;’If only things were different I’d definitely marry you’
When you try to tackle the status of your relationship or any issues, he/she either tells you what you want to hear and then returns to his normal behavior or he/she just skirts the issue by saying something vague. One way or the other, you wind up back at square one.
He/She lives with his/her ex
He/She shares a bed with a man/woman that she/he claims is a "friend"
He/She admits that he is dating multiple women continuously
He’s/She's not over his/her ex – openly
He/She says he’s/she's over the ex but he’s/she's quietly still trying to cope with the end of the relationship
He/She mentions his ex or things that happened between the two of them often
He’s an overt mother lover –
He’s a mother hater – has an overtly negative relationship with his mother
He/She doesn’t call when he’s/she's supposed to or says she will. Ever.
He’s/She's one big walking excuse.
You feel empty after you sleep with him.
He/She creeps out after sleeping with you even though you’ve been together for a while
He/She has a stringent routine that he just won’t deviate from – sometimes a sign that he has someone else
He/She won’t take calls either before or after a certain time – often a sign that he’s cheating
He/She doesn’t come around to your place until late
He/She is resistant to involving himself in your life
He/She talks about his problems, his successes, his life – it’s me, me, me all the way
He/She determines the momentum of the relationship – you meet up when he/she wants to meet up
He/She pushes for an ‘open’ relationship - lots of "space"
He/She never refers to you as a girlfriend/boyfriend, partner or any form of significant other
He/She uses sex as his/her way of demonstrating his/her so-called ‘emotion’
There are pockets of time when he/she seems to just disappear, and then he/she resurfaces with little or no explanation as if nothing happened.
It feels like he/she blows hot and cold - he/she is moody and non-consistent
He’s/She's quick out the gate in pursuing you, gets your attention, and then goes into a slow canter
He/She tells you that he/she has a lot of issues that he needs to deal with
He/She actually says ‘I’m not ready for a relationship’ but is still with you
He/She says he/she wants to get married, but there is no sign of a ring, no sign of a date and years are going by
He/She can’t commit to anything, no matter how miniscule – everything that he’s/she's asked, such as whether he can do something with you, or for you is a big drama to get him/her to say yes or no.
He’s/She's got about as much emotion in him/her for your feelings and happenings as a stone
He/She may try and sleep with you on the first night